Had sex for what she claims was less than a minute. My wife and Dan woke up (assumingly after everyone else went to bed) and then she stops giving me as many details. He thought it was odd because he knows how shy she is but didn't think much of it being tired and drunk. Everyone eventually went to their rooms and fell asleep, my other friend said my wife and Dan were still sleeping on the couch together when he went to bed. They were both falling asleep and leaning against each other, confirmed by another friend of mine. Someone else (friends wife) wanted to sit on the pull out so my wife moved over and was laying right against Dan, and squished between him and the other wife. So she was on the left and he was on the right with a lot of space in between. She laid down and at some point, she doesn't remember when, he sat beside her but on the opposite end. Around 2am they all wanted to watch a movie so they pulled out the pull out bed/couch in the living room. They kept drinking and there was a bit of flirting but nothing that other friends (who were all varying degrees of tipsy to hammered) thought anything of. It was crowded so they were touching each other and the drinking game had some sexual questions. They were playing drinking games and she was sitting next to the guy, I'll call him Dan. She has no tolerance as she isn't a drinker, she's small (100lb, 5'2") and she didn't eat much - her story. She drank a lot more than she is use to (8+ drinks), because my friends were encouraging her to drink and if she wasn't a bit tipsy she would be annoyed by their drunk behaviour. On Saturday she started drinking around 8PM, and everyone played card games, board games and drinking games. Her story, with some collaboration from friends, is: My friends are great and I had no concerns, everyone who was there I have been close with for nearly two decades.Ĥ days ago my wife told me that she slept with a very close friend of mine - of 17 years. It was completely her choice to stay, I wasn't going to be there so it didn't effect me either way. My wife expressed concern and anxiety about being there alone with 9 men, but tries to step out of her comfort zone and stayed. They had all just driven 3-4 hours to get there. My wife and friends stayed, which was fine my wife had to stay because it's our cottage and the friends wanted to stay. 10 friends came up (9 men and ones wife) but I ended up being called into work. There was not a single worry about her cheating.ģ weeks ago we were planning a weekend get-together/party at our cottage. She rarely goes out (just work, gym and shopping), doesn't talk to many people, doesn't hide her phone or computer, etc. She isnt even comfortable hugging my friends or having them touch her (hand on her arm, around her, etc.). She was allegedly raped about 10 years ago by a group of men and that makes her very reserved. They have barely had conversations with her. Even though we've been together for 7 years my friends feel like they barely know her. She doesn't like being around other people. My wife was raised in a home without any alcohol ever, due to alcoholic family members. She said it was stupid to drink, to each their own. When my friends and I get together I've encouraged her to drink, but it wasn't her thing. In the last 10 years she has probably consumed alcohol 5 times. The farthest she'd go would be a 1-2 drinks once every couple years. Those people being my parents and friends, some of who were involved in this **** fest. Some people in my life are saying I shouldn't throw in the towel so easily. We have a child together so unfortunately it's not as simple as kicking her out and never seeing her again. I have already kicked my wife out of the house, changed the locks and told her I want a divorce. I'm going to try and be as objective as I can. It's a classic right? Is there ever a scenario when you should look at it differently?
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